“The strength of a nation derives from the integrity of the home.” ~ Confucius

According to the ancient art and science of Feng Shui, the bedroom is the closest thing to us—therefore it has the greatest effect on our lives. Think of it like if you were having a fight with your significant other, you’d be pretty bent out of shape about it and you might not function at your best that day. Versus if you hear about a tragedy happening somewhere in the world. You might be upset for a moment, but it won’t color your immediate experience the same way. Our bedrooms have a profound effect on how much sizzle, intimacy and even confidence we’ll have each and every day.

For almost two decades, I’ve had the pleasure of supporting clients create powerful environments to achieve their desires and goals through Feng Shui. Think of it as acupuncture for architecture. And I’m sure it won’t shock you to know that 95% of the thousands of clients I’ve helped over the years pretty much want the same results—the money, the honey and the health.

No matter where they lived, whether or not they were in a relationship or how many resources they had at the time, all of them followed the following steps to amp their mojo love vibes. The bonus is they ended up sleeping better and having more energy each day too, which certainly helps out when you’re getting busy under the sheets.

Nine MUSTs for your bedroom to be mojolicious:

1. Rest

The bedroom’s main job is for you to get a great night’s sleep. It’s all about supporting your well-being. Make sure you’ve got whatever suits your best sleep habits. Eye mask? Blackout curtains? Low lighting? Cozy bedding? Know what you need and have it at your fingertips.

2. Romance

The bedroom’s next job is about having some sexy time with the person (or people) you dig. Again, do you have what you desire at your fingertips? Candles, lubricant, adult toys, lingerie, inspiring images on the walls are just some of the things to amp the sizzle in your relationship.

3. Rejuvenation

The next R in the holy trinity of bedroom R’s is rejuvenation because after all that sizzling intimacy (and possibly just a long week at work), you need a space that supports your well-being. Think about your senses (taste, touch, smell, sight, hear) and incorporate your favorites to keep your own energy strong.

4. Red

A little bit of red goes a long way. No matter where you bedroom is in the scope of the whole home, you want to have some red in there. It’s the color that corresponds with the element fire and the quality passion. So the addition of red amps your fiery, passionate side—and who doesn’t want some of that in a relationship?

5. Point of View

When you’re lying in bed, what do you see? What’s directly across from bed? Is it something lovely? Inspiring? Sexy? Or is it a bunch of laundry in a pile? What you look at first thing in the morning and last thing at night has a profound effect on how you feel. Make sure it’s something pleasurable.

6. Free Flow

One of the biggest no-no’s here is to store stuff under your bed. I know, I know. I can already hear you groaning. The fact of the matter is when you have stuff (and yes, a storage box with wrapping paper is stuff) under the bed you cut off 180 degrees of flow around you. That just means less intimacy, less options, less mojo.

7. Tech Free Zone

Remember the first three on this list. Most electronics do not fit into those categories and have no business in the bedroom. Plus, electronics have EMFs (electromagnetic fields), which are like having an invisible air traffic controller in your bedroom at all times‑and that’s just not sexy. Bottom line…keep the electronics out of the bedroom.

8. Work Free Zone

At this point, you probably get that having a desk or working in your bedroom is not conducive to sizzle, sex or intimacy. It’s good for—work. If you’re serious about amping your love mojo, get the work out of the bedroom and keep it out. And yes, that means no checking emails in bed on your darn phone.

9. Just the Two of You

This one I’m about to drop surprises most people and makes one of the biggest impacts. Absolutely, under no circumstances, do not ever have photos of other people in your bedroom. Just you and your significant other. Don’t have one yet? No biggie. Put a pic of a couple from a magazine that embodies the vibe you’d like to have. Other than that, no kid pics. No pet pics. No family pics. No friend pics. None.

“I believe that being successful means having a balance of success stories across the many areas of your life. You can’t truly be considered successful in your business life if your home life is in shambles.” ~ Zig Ziglar

There you have it. Simple steps rock your love mojo right now. What will you do this week to make your bedroom more mojolicious?

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Big love,