“Today, fashion is really about sensuality-how a woman feels on the inside. In the ’80s women used suits with exaggerated shoulders and waists to make a strong impression. Women are now more comfortable with themselves and their bodies, they no longer feel the need to hide behind their clothes.” ~ Donna Karan One… Continue Reading
“Force without wisdom falls of its own weight.” ~ Horace In our fast paced world, it’s crucial to take regular time outs. They can be in the form of a five-minute sanity break during a weekday. They can be a half-day excursion all the way to a weeklong adventure. What’s important is that you begin… Continue Reading
I never thought a trip to the dentist would open the world of erotic, pleasurable movement in my life. But life tends to surprise you like that. In 2002, I had some intense dental work. It took many appointments and months to complete. Despite having a phenomenal dentist, it was quite grueling. My body was… Continue Reading
“It’s also helpful to realize that this very body that we have, that’s sitting right here right now… with its aches and it pleasures… is exactly what we need to be fully human, fully awake, fully alive.” ~ Pema Chodron Here’s an important fact: everything is energy. All things are constantly in motion.… Continue Reading
Stress. It’s a part of life. Emotional. Environmental. Physical. There’s no getting around a certain level of it these days. What there is is being smart about dancing with it. If you’re like me, you throw a lot of tension (aka stress) into your shoulders and neck. Call it hours at a keyboard, bent over… Continue Reading
For as long as I can remember, my Grandma always said: “Debbie dear, be beautiful from the inside out.” Wise words. All these years later, I get it. As much as I appreciate and enjoy beautifying my outer world, it holds ZERO weight without the inner mojo. This week, focus on who you are BEING.… Continue Reading
“After all those years as a woman hearing ‘not thin enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not this enough, not that enough’ almost overnight I woke up one morning and thought, ‘I’m enough.’” ~ Anna Quindlen One of the fascinating things about life is how most of us are on a journey back… Continue Reading
Thanks to my Grandmothers, Mom and Aunt—I developed a love of fashion and style at an early age. I always played dress up in their closets finding treasures to transport me into a new feeling or persona. I understood that you don’t need a fancy party dress to feel special or stand out. There’s a… Continue Reading
Most people are familiar with the art and science of Feng Shui as something to use for the home. What most people aren’t aware of is the fact that you can Feng Shui a person! Yep. You can adjust your personal chi (aka: Mojo) with some simple Feng Shui techniques. It makes sense when… Continue Reading
Are you easily rattled by other people’s opinions? Do you want to change other people? When you want to share your thoughts, do you decide it’s best to not? Would you like to make requests without fear of rejection? The more comfortable you get in your own skin, the more comfortable you… Continue Reading
Deborah Kagan, Sensual Lifestyle Specialist, is a popular guest speaker on the topic of sensuality and how to transform all areas of your life – personal, business, and spiritual – into one of creativity, passion, and wealth. Through working with Deborah either one-on-one, in group programs, at live events or with home study courses through www.deborah-kagan.com, women tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo, which is the source of true self-esteem. She is the author of Find Your ME Spot: 52 Ways to Reclaim Your Confidence, Feel Good in Your Own Skin and Live a Turned On Life.
