Goal Setting is for Amateurs

Goals. Vision. Plans.

Goals Vision. Plans.

Goals. Vision. Plans.

It’s like a modern day mantra everyone shouts and espouses to be THE way to create your life.

What’s your goal? Do you have a strong vision? What plans did you put in place?

Without them, you won’t reach the desired outcome.

True?!

I think not.

My suggestion: DO NOT make any goals, vision or plans.

Yep. You’re reading that correctly. Don’t do it.

These things are ripe time bombs wrought with disappointment and inevitable feelings of being let down/disappointed/disillusioned/not enough-ness. If you’re really honest with yourself, when was the last time you successfully fulfilled on a life goal or vision? For real.

Goals, visions and plans are most often generated from masculine energy. They’re about the A to B of what you’re craving. They live in the world of black and white. Of you win or lose.

Since you’re reading this on my blog, I know that stepping in and steeping in more of your feminine energy is probably what you desire with the bigger vision being about attracting a delicious life for yourself.

SO – instead of goals, vision and plans, let’s focus on: Desires. Feelings. Being-ness.

All of these are so much more spacious and call for a freedom with energy. They inspire possibility. And they are about the Now.

The New IS Now. This moment has never happened before and won’t ever happen again. And when you are in the Now, you are present with what is so. With You and how you choose to BE.

There is a delicate balance that takes place between creating a desire, allowing yourself to feel into it, becoming the woman who can receive the vision in real time and space and being here right now.

The following formula helps: Be. Do. Have.

Who do you want to BE?

A woman who is kind? Sassy? Powerful? Confident? Compassionate?

How will you show up in your life?

This means in all parts of your life. In line at the grocery store. In rush hour. Dealing with a difficult coworker. Your family.

What will that require?

Patience? Humor? Intelligence? Leadership?

From that place of Being, what would you like to DO?

This is where we can begin to factor in some concrete desired results.

Where will you focus your energy? What will you dedicate your time and resources to?

Dating? Gym time? Cooking classes? Travelling? Crafting?

Then, what will you choose to HAVE?

This is where you create and manifest your results. Is it improved health and well-being? Increased financial status? Finding the one? A new home? A new car?

What will you choose?

Be. Do. Have. This formula allows your delicious, mojolicious femme self to come out and create a life you truly love.

Take it for a spin. See how it feels.

Mostly, remember this moment only happens once. The New IS Now.

Enjoy it all.

Here’s to a Mojolicious life!

Big love,