Your Biggest Sex Organ

“For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.”

~ Isabel Allende

The brain can be said to be our most important sex organ. The brain controls our sexual responses, releases sex hormones, and it is where all our sex fantasies, and sexual identities live.

Ever wonder why you feel so turned on after a good conversation? Or from watching a TV show or movie? Or from hearing a particular song? Or smelling a certain scent? It’s because the nerves from our sense organs are channeled into the brain, which is the mothership that sorts through the data and spits out a response. That mass of grey matter is literally a prime aphrodisiac. Pending on your particular sensory make up – erotic photography might get you going…or not. A musky scent might get you going…or not. Slurping down some fresh briny oysters might get you going…or not. Whatever your flavor, take note – the brain is key to being a mojolicious woman.

When contemplating an intimate partner, a new one or even one you’ve been with for some time, take a moment and tune into what is it about this person gets you going.

Where are you most stimulated?

Are you tingling with anticipation to see them?

Do their emails or texts make your panties atwitter?

Do you crave their scent?

If none of these things ring a bell for you, beware of the red flag flying above.

Physical attraction alone can fog up our powerful internal radar. It’s certainly fun and hot at the beginning. It might even carry you through a few years. But if you’re looking for a long-term, sustainable and consistently hot connection with your partner, make sure above all else, that ALL your senses get ignited. When this happens, your brain throbs with delight and the relationship is certain to have legs.

Trust me on this one ladies—if your brain isn’t juicy wet, they’re not the one for you. And that begs the question, why are you giving away your precious energy to this person who doesn’t bedazzle your main brain? Freud put it this way –

“The union of mental and bodily satisfaction in the enjoyment of love is one of life’s culminating peaks. Apart from a few queer fanatics, all the world knows this and conducts its life accordingly.”

Think about it and let me know.

Big love,

PS. Not sure how to uncover your #mojolicious self to attract a great man? Be my guest and join in on the first Monday of the month for the Mojo Monday Happy Hour Live Q&A event.